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Give yourself out, give what you have.
Giving of yourself and allowing others to receive what you have is the best way to heal yourself as well as give them the option to heal themselves.
Never hold back your gift. Never hold back your knowledge and learning. Those are the things people are waiting for. And when you hold them back because you think that what you have to share isn’t worthwhile, you are compounding dis-ease in the world
What’s the result, you see?
Basha: serving others is the best self-service
Original Bashar Bashar 2022-01-12 22:22
https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/T5GEuo17VIPg0YEbd-3o6g
Q:
Hello, Basha!
I have an autoimmune disease. In the past 16 years, I have been suffering from great pain, my body is weakening, and the situation has become more and more serious.
Now, I’ve had enough. I hope I can recover.
So, I hope you can help me, help me find out
Basha:
Well again, the first question usually, energetically speaking is what have you learned from having that experience that’s you might otherwise not have learned
Start acknowledging what you’ve learned in a positive context
Q:
I learned to appreciate my body’s ability because I was “deprived”.
I learned to maintain the best physical condition through a healthy diet and a good lifestyle… And so on.
Basha:
Anything else?
Q:
I learned that suffering from such a disease is painful and life is difficult.
I prefer not to have such pain.
Basha:
Is that what you learned?
Q:
I think I must dig deeper to really feel the deeper lessons I have learned from it.
Basha:
Well, this may be a good start for you.
Because when you start acknowledging how creating this for yourself has served you in a positive way, then you will be acknowledging that you learn the lesson and then the message doesn’t have to be delivered in the same way
Do you understand
Q:
Understand?
Basha:
Because you’re saying:
“I am willing to understand, I am willing to learn, and I do not need to force myself into a situation of ‘no choice’.
Because I have reached the position of ‘no other choice for myself’.
I already know that these ‘truths’ for myself (tailored) are real “
Do you understand?
Q:
Understand?
Basha:
Now I do have one other suggestion for you. Anything that you have learned from having this experience, have you in any way shape or form been teaching others who have similar experiences how to gain positive lessons from having it
Q:
no Not necessarily
Basha:
What do you mean by “not necessarily”?
Q:
Although I am engaged in helping others, I don’t think I can directly help people with chronic (long-term) pain.
Basha:
Why not? After all, you are an expert in this field!
Q:
Well… I haven’t conquered it, and I haven’t conquered it… So, I think
Basha:
Why do you think you need to overcome it in order to teach how to deal with it?
In fact,what makes you think you won’t be a better teacher by still having it while you are also sharing what you’ve learned from it that might help someone else?
Q:
I don’t think I handled this very well.
I feel that I am suffering from it. This kind of suffering is endless, and there is nothing I can do.
Basha:
Stop it.
I’m not talking about physical experience.
In what we talked about just now, you also admitted: if it weren’t for this experience, you wouldn’t learn anything positive, would you?
Q:
yes!
Basha:
These positive things can be what you talk about with others.
Q:
Oh, I see!
Basha:
When you talk to them, you don’t mean that they should do the same as you, but tell them that they can also choose to turn back and ask themselves some very interesting introspective questions:
“If I had experienced such pain, what ‘have I learned’ now?”
“What ‘already known’ may I know?”
“What kind of person have I become?”
“I may be… Maybe not…”
“Maybe I need to think about these problems…”
By opening these questions in their minds and sharing the ideas you have learned with them, you may find that you no longer need to experience the pain as before, and you may have overcome the pain in the process of sharing “the lessons you learned from the pain”.
And you will overcome it as a process when you are sharing what you have learned from it. Not before you start sharing it, but as part of the process of sharing it
Can you understand?
Q:
Yes, I think I can understand.
Therefore, it is very helpful and important for me to provide services to others with my personal experience,.
Basha:
Being of service to others is the best way to be of service to yourself
Because you are contained within the collective. So when you’re willing to support the collective by being your true self as best as you can, You can’t be left out.
Paradoxically, when you don’t focus on yourself, you can better integrate yourself into the group.
Q:
Oh, I see!
Basha:
This is how reality works, because you no longer block your way.
You’ve gotten out of your way. And you can let the reflection of what service and help you’re giving come back to you
That’s the origin of the old phrase ‘to help someone, you’ll get it back tenfold’
Whatever you put out into the universe will come back to you tenfold
And this has changed them, yourself and the world.
Is that right?
Q:
Yes, I see!
Basha:
Give yourself out, give what you have.
Giving of yourself and allowing others to receive what you have is the best way to heal yourself as well as give them the option to heal themselves.
Never hold back your gift. Never hold back your knowledge and learning. Those are the things people are waiting for. And when you hold them back because you think that what you have to share isn’t worthwhile, you are compounding dis-ease in the world
What’s the result, you see?
Q:
yes!
Basha:
So lighten your world up. Give them a better opportunity to change the experience for themselves by changing the experience for yourself by using it in the best possible positive way that you can so that you are no longer ill at ease with yourself
What you need to do is to change your pain experience and make positive use of your pain as much as you can, so that you won’t be “at ease” when you get along with yourself
Q:
Yes, very helpful! thank you!
Sananda 